Getting engaged is a major milestone in any relationship, and often one of the most memorable moments in a couple’s life. While some couples might have an easy time discussing their desire to get engaged, others may need a little nudge. In this blog post, we will explore tips and considerations for dropping hints for a proposal, and how to make the proposal experience unforgettable.

Talk About Your Future

First and foremost, it is important to have a conversation with your partner about your future together. Before considering marriage, it is essential to make sure that both of you are on the same page about your long-term goals, priorities and values. It is also important to have an honest conversation about the financial commitment that comes with marriage. These discussions can help you determine if you are both ready for the next step in your relationship.

Discuss What You’re Envisioning

When it comes to the proposal, it is essential to think about what you expect. Do you want something sweet and intimate at home, somewhere in private, or something extravagant mapped out with a planner, florist and photographer? Do you want your family to be involved in the proposal or do you want a surprise gathering after with your family and friends? Most photographers will help plan a proposal or make recommendations for other vendors you may want involved. If you want the proposal photographed, consider reaching out to a professional photographer to capture the moment.

It is also important to discuss your ring preferences with your partner. Would you prefer to shop for a ring together or be surprised with no input? There are various types of rings to consider, such as natural diamonds, lab-diamonds, moissanite and gemstones. Local jewelry stores like Joseph’s Jewelers, Siebke Hoyt Jewelers and Doland Jewelers can provide a wide range of options to choose from.

Plan Ahead

Planning ahead is also essential when it comes to dropping hints for a marriage proposal. If you have a specific wedding date in mind, it is important to discuss it with your partner. Some dates may be more popular than others, and it is crucial to give yourself enough time to plan your wedding. 

If you want an engagement of one year or less, you can consider looking at venues before getting engaged. Most wedding venues in Iowa book 1-1.5 years in advance, so booking early can ensure that you get the date you want. You can also consider Friday weddings for more availability, if you’re looking for a shorter engagement. It’s not uncommon to book a venue or a photographer before a proposal these days. Some vendors offer a discount for off-season and Friday bookings. 

Be Patient

It is also important to be patient with your partner if they are not on the same page as you. Getting engaged is a significant decision, and your partner may need time to think about it. Do not pressure them into proposing or make them feel guilty for not doing it sooner. Remember this is a decision you are making together, and it is important to give your partner the space and time they need.

Keep This in Mind 

Dropping hints for a proposal can be nerve-wracking, so it is essential to communicate your desires with your partner. By discussing your future together, planning ahead, dropping subtle hints, making your expectations known and being patient, you can increase the likelihood of a perfect proposal. Take the time to discuss your future together, plan ahead and make sure that you and your partner are on the same page.

If you want the proposal photographed, send this post to your significant other and tell them to read the last two sentences. Christina Ney Photography has four photographers ready to help you plan your proposal. Shoot Christina a DM on instagram for more details on how they can help!